Magonia - No 09 - 1982

Magazine Overview

This document is page 20 of issue number 20 of "MAGONIA" magazine, dated May 26, 1985. The content appears to be a review of a book that explores themes of childhood, fantasy, reality, and paranormal experiences, particularly UFO sightings.

Book Review: Fantasy, Reality, and Childhood Experiences

The review begins by noting how the theme of escape is prevalent in the book being discussed. Children in the book escape into various realms: Territorial Army, romantic speculation about megaliths, and a fantasy world of science fiction. The reviewer suggests that the family's problems, including children with special needs like Barry (deaf from meningitis) and Nerys (born premature), might be a clue to their escapist tendencies, as hinted by Jenny in "Common Ground No. 1". The reviewer posits that the 'middle children' might have sought attention, with Darren attempting to outdo Gaynor in his pursuits.

The reviewer expresses pleasure that the authors of the book discuss the work of researchers Celia Green and Keith Basterfield. A key point is made about the subjective nature of validating experiences, drawing a parallel between UFO experiences and the book's subject matter: one must have had such experiences oneself to fully grasp their validity.

The central lesson derived from the book is that the distinction between 'fantasy' and 'reality' is not innate but learned. The reviewer observes that many children have experiences similar to those described, but are often told to "stop imagining things." This practice is condemned. In the case of the Sunderlands (presumably the family in the book), the opposite extreme occurred: the mother was unable to help the children differentiate between their internal and external realities. The reviewer wonders if the children would have welcomed a simple reassurance like, "Don't worry, darling, it's only a dream," but notes that such reassurance was absent from both their mother and the investigators.

The review critically mentions that Andy Collins and Graham Phillips were allowed on the scene as investigators, calling it a "most serious mistake." The reviewer questions who can now reassure children like Gaynor or Nerys when they have a "grim vision of the wasteland," asking, "who now can tell them, 'Don't worry, it's only a dream'?"

The Real Message and Conclusion

According to the reviewer, the true message from the unconscious, as conveyed by the book, is a plea to rebuild a world where children have pleasant dreams, such as "dreams of ponies," instead of "nightmares about nuclear holocausts." This would enable parents to say with a clear conscience, "Don't worry, dear, it was only a dream; it didn't happen."

The reviewer concludes by stating that this interpretation is one from which the authors of the book will likely not dissent.

Recurring Themes and Editorial Stance

The recurring themes in this review are the psychological impact of childhood experiences, the nature of reality versus fantasy, the importance of parental support and reassurance, and the parallels between subjective experiences like those of children and UFO phenomena. The editorial stance, as expressed through the reviewer P.R., advocates for a more empathetic and validating approach to children's experiences, emphasizing the need for a supportive environment that fosters positive dreams rather than anxieties about destructive events. The review also implicitly critiques certain investigative methodologies in the paranormal field.